" I Am Her , You Are Me"

Leave the broken bonds. Everything does not need to be fixed.

Episode 6

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First and foremost, I just want to thank you guys for your support. I could not have made it this far without you guys listening to my podcast. I truly appreciate you all.  Like, because of you all I can chase my dreams. With that being said, I am looking for some guest speakers. So, if you are interested in being a part of my journey, please don't be afraid to reach out. Your opinion matters, your advice could help another individual out. Our voices matter please, reach out to me and let's create good vibes.

 Today's topic is about leaving broken bonds. You know, we tend to try to make situations work. When we need to learn how to let things be what they are and move on with our life. I use my own life experiences to get the message out to you all. Hoping that it makes a good impact on your life, realizing that it's ok for situations to happen. You must be the bigger person and know that everything that comes across your path is not what it seems. Life is full of disappointments “they say” but I don't consider them disappointments. I consider them as lessons, which are all a part of the plan. When bonds are broken in our life, we are always trying to put pieces together, asking ourselves the following:

·        what happened?

·        what went wrong? 

·       Why did they do that?

·        How could they do that? 

·       Why did they even come into your life?

I just came here to tell you in 2023, we are not fixing broken bonds. The bond was broken for a reason it is not for you to identify. Just know that you have saved yourself from continuous hurt, self-destruction, disappointment, betrayals, and trust issues. My girl, what matters the most an what I want you to realize is when you leave broken bonds. Sister, you restore your happiness.

Let me make this very clear just because the bond has been broken between you and someone special. Does not mean you cannot forgive them because you must forgive people for yourself. You must forgive them for the sake of yourself. You cannot hold grudges against anyone just because it did not work in your favor. Not every person in your life you meet is meant to be in your life. You must know how to single out those who are just there for the season. You got to move on knowing that their season is over. Leave it where it is "behind". They say a person only has about 3 to 5 close friends. Just be thankful because God has a way of bringing people into your life and removing them. So, don't hate them, love them, no matter what happened between you two. If you know you have done nothing wrong forgive them, love them, and just move on. There's no need to try to restore something that has been broken. Save yourself.

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